Spiritual Conversation Style

The purpose of this assessment is to evaluate the style of communication you predominantly use when talking about your Christian convictions with others. There are multiple different approaches present in the Bible that are all valid and are used to lead people toward a relationship with Jesus Christ. With each style the key is uncovering the style that best fits our approach and leveraging this approach for maximum effectiveness for the kingdom. Each style has great Biblical examples, along with traits, cautions, and opportunities for further development that will shared at the completion of the assessment.

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Question 1 of 36

I would rather dive into personal life issues than abstract theological ideas.

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A motto that would fit me is: “Make a difference or a mess, but do something.”

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I tend to be more practical and action-oriented than philosophical and idea-oriented.

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I often tell stories about my personal experiences in order to illustrate a point I am trying to make.

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I am always looking for a match between the needs and interests of my friends and the various events, books, etc., that they would enjoy or benefit from.

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I prefer getting involved in discussions concerning a person’s life before dealing with the details of their beliefs.

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Question 7 of 36

People generally consider me to be an interactive, sensitive, and caring kind of person.

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Question 8 of 36

People seem interested in hearing stories about things that have happened in my life.

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Question 9 of 36

I tend to watch for spiritually strategic events to bring people to (such as Christian concerts, outreach events, and seeker services).

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Question 10 of 36

I often get frustrated with people when they use weak arguments or poor logic.

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Question 11 of 36

I am still amazed at how God brought me to faith in Him and I am motivated to tell people about it.

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I intentionally share my mistakes with others when it will help them relate to the solutions I have found.

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Question 13 of 36

A highlight of my week would be to take a guest with me to an appropriate church event.

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Never

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I do not shy away from putting a person on the spot when it seems necessary.

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Question 15 of 36

In conversations, I naturally focus on the questions that are holding up a person’s spiritual progress.

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Question 16 of 36

I believe that real love often means telling someone then truth, even when it hurts.

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Question 17 of 36

I feel more comfortable physically assisting a person in the name of Christ than getting involved religious discussions.

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Question 18 of 36

In conversations, I like to approach topics directly, without much small talk or beating around the bush.

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Question 19 of 36

I like to get at the underlying reasons for opinions that people hold.

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Question 20 of 36

I enjoy discussions and debates on difficult questions.

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Question 21 of 36

Other people have commented about my ability for developing new friendships.

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Question 22 of 36

I see needs in people’s lives that others often overlook.

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Question 23 of 36

I do not have a problem confronting my friends with the truth even if it risks hurting the relationship.

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Question 24 of 36

I tend to be analytical.

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Question 25 of 36

If I knew of a high quality outreach event that my friends would enjoy, I would make a big effort to bring them.

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Question 26 of 36

I enjoy long talks with friends.

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Question 27 of 36

I prefer to show love through my actions more than words.

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Question 28 of 36

I often identify with others by using phrases like “I used to think that too” or “I once felt the way you do.”

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Question 29 of 36

When I tell people of how I came to Christ, I have found that they have been interested in hearing it.

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Question 30 of 36

I have a hard time getting out of bookstores or online libraries without getting a bunch of books that will help me better understand issues being debated in society.

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Question 31 of 36

I sometimes get in trouble for lacking gentleness and sensitivity in the way I interact with others.

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Question 32 of 36

When people are spiritually closed, I have found that my quiet demonstrations of Christ-like love sometimes make them more receptive.

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Question 33 of 36

I enjoy including or adding new people to activities I am involved in.

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Question 34 of 36

I find fulfillment in helping others often in behind-the-scenes ways.

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Question 35 of 36

I am a “people person” who places a high value on friendship.

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Question 36 of 36

To be honest, even if I knew the answers, I am more comfortable having someone “better qualified” explain Christianity to my friends.

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Question 36 of 36

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